i only appreciate people who loves me for who i am by looking pass my unperfection, if they can't handle it, so be it.. never in my mind i think of abandoning those who i really love..sometimes, i may forget about them but eventually, i'll remember, so don't lose hope and keep reminding me of who should i appreciate.. some people may take me for granted but i believe, one day the same thing will happen to them too.. the is the karma effect, its a part of the circle of life :)